Love and Life; the four letters small word carries all the burden. We human being is blessed with the brain but still, we tend to do the foolishness. We make stupid decisions of our life and regret later. To the people who regret their decisions they take in their life, I would love to say; never ever regret any decision in your life. Every decision we take teach us a lesson for life no matter what the consequence was of the decision.
We get attached to many people in our life. Some stand with us for life and some leave us in between. They go when we need them the most. Consider those people who leave you as a blessing in your life. WHY? The reason behind because they left you can now have new true relations in your life. I have usually seen people giving a big full stop to their life after their breakups. I won’t lie. Everyone does.
Honestly, breakups do break the person badly. They break emotionally, mentally. At times for years, they just become lifeless soul. The human heart within them dies. There is always a conflict between people what hurts more? Relationship v/s One-sided Love.
Even I am a part of the same conflict. At times I feel relationship are more terrible and another moment I feel One Sided Love hurts more.
The beginning of every relationship is just so beautiful. Honestly, at times, I have fallen in love with a couple. There are couples I have admired the most. Seeing them in love deeply have made me at times forced to feel that being in a relationship is just so cute and lovely. Years later, when I see that same couple separated; it hurts me too. I start losing faith in love. But if you hear stories of both sides of the coin you will feel that their separation was the right decision. But getting separated from your partner hurts badly. You see thousands of dreams of future with them. You plan many things. You are all prepared to spend whole life with them and then something worse happens or either one of them was faking the relationship. I strongly feel moving out from a relationship is somewhat easy. At least you know what has actually happened. You know you have been cheated. You know the answers to the questions. I have seen people growing more mentally strong after their breakup. I salute all those brave souls.
Talking about One Sided Love, I always feel weak. First of all One Sided Love happens randomly. That Unexpected love strikes in the heart right away. You are clueless for a moment and the person is all over your mind and heart. First of all, you are scared to express your feelings to the person you love. I always used to say people to go and express their love boldly. They will be at least clear getting answers. But when going through the same phase today I feel confessing your love is the biggest struggle. Thousands of bad thoughts run in mind every time I think to confess my love. The fear of losing him as a person too stop me every time. I spend most of the evening thinking same questions every day. Does he know I love him? Am I not right match for him? Does he know I am deeply in love with him? Is he ignoring? There are several questions with which I am fighting daily. I even don’t know if I will get answers to these questions. There is a hope in the heart that what if he accepts my proposal. But then everything ends on WHAT IF?
To me, One Sided Love hurt the most. We keep on fighting every day. We even don’t know what we are fighting but we still keep the struggle on…
TO THE PEOPLE READING THIS, If you have read it till here A big thank you for having so much patience. I have a small request to everyone reading this.If you are in a relationship please be loyal to your partner. Being cheated in one of the worst phases a person has to go to. To overcome that pain sometimes life ends. To others out here, if you know someone loves you or have feelings for you; the least you can do is respect their feelings. At least you can talk to them politely and explain them rather than being rude towards them. The person who is being treated so badly starts finding faults in themselves. Never make fun of their feelings. Remember they love you without any expectation. At last to the people who are going through with me in the phase of being in one-sided love, I would say Have faith in God. If you are meant to be together you will be,otherwise, think Destiny has something more best for you in its stock.
Keep Loving.. ❤